In cultures where dating is not prevalent, arranged marriages perform a similar function. Marriage varies and differs from country to country and culture-to-culture, each has their own thoughts and ideas about it, varies from society to society. Sometimes ends up in a happy life and some not.
Arranged Vs. love, arranged marriage usually ends up in divorce specially know a days where the women actually can live without a man, some people survive an arrange marriage and live with it and love after getting married, marriages based on love survive more, however; our culture looks at people who love before marriage or knows a guy is forbidden and shameful. Usually arranged marriages are done by parents to keep their family name or usually the parents are involve in some business so it’s like a favor to each other is to marry the kids.
Age Vs. attitude, usually the man is older when any two are married, and that gives him the power in some way and makes him the responsible one, however; in some cases a man actually marries an older women, usually this happens by choice and society has an issue with such a thing. Most of people I know are happy especially that’s its their own choice.
Before Vs. now, women before are locked in their homes until married and taught by their mothers how to do different things for example cooking, sowing etc. After marriage they live to serve their husbands and every thing is wrapped around this man. Now its different with most people, you live your life and when married you continue living your own social life however with a man next to you, you get to make your own time with him and not necessary dedicate all your time to him. Everything around us has changed. And women now a days work and are achieving high work position.
Different social class (men Vs. women), men in such a society usually marries a girl less fortunate or equal fortunate, however; they are a bit threaten by marring a women more fortunate and richer then him, usually they fell less of a man.
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